Show Leadership to your dog
Showing leadership in a manner your dog understands and can relate to will make him secure in his position within the household, and security is something all dogs need.
Not doing this will result in a badly-behaved dog that growls at you when you tell him to get off your bed. If you replace love, which has no meaning for it, with leadership which is deeply significant, then your dog will start to listen to you and do exactly as you ask.
From The Dog Trainer Book: How to train your barking, howling, jumping up, pulling on the lead and won’t come when it’s called dog